First, I just want to stress that the separation or breakup does happen in any healthy relationship, but it does not necessarily mean that it will be forever. Here are five steps that will allow you to subtlety let your ex girlfriend know that you ARE still interested in her life, so that you can potentially rekindle romance in the right away.
1. After give your ex girlfriend some time to be by herself, try to contact her subtlely.
Try to get your friends to help you out in this. “Arrange” some sort of get-together during parties, or during a baseball game to bump to her. Get contact with your ex in a non obtrusive and non demanding manner and keep the conversation cordial. Remind her subtle through your conversations, about the good times with her. And, let her discover that you are still attractive and have a great sense of humor. Making her laugh, sets her to be comfortable with you and do break down the awkwardness of ex couple coming back together again.
2. Be professional about it if she is dating another guy
If she is seeing someone else, do not fret. Don’t go on a rampage to get back at the new guy… even if the guy is someone you know. Nothing is lost. Don’t fret about it. Just be very professional about this. As much as you want your girlfriend to be exclusively your own, she has all the right to be seeing someone else. Nothing is lost if it’s just a “rebound” relationship with a new guy. Remember… you always stand a chance. If you love her unconditionally, you would want the best for her… even the best guy for her.
3. Keeping in touch or drop her a text message or an email.
If you want to learn how to get your ex girlfriend back, try reaching out to her. Playing too hard to get is not the best way to approach this, though communication should be scaled back. Reach out to her and let her know subtlety that you are still interested in being a part of her life.
If you do not find casual, easy going methods of communication with your ex, you will never be able to get her back. Staying in touch is absolutely vital, but keep it to casual messages like “Hey, what’s up?” rather than overwhelming her inbox with love poetry.
4. If you want to learn how to get your ex girlfriend back, stay away from other girls.
Sure, she may be understanding enough to let it slide if you begin to peruse other “prospects”, but if you want to get your girlfriend back, stay away from other ladies.
Use this subtly because, effectively, you have broken up with your ex girlfriend, and you could potentially start to go on dates with other girls. If you start dating again, there is a possibility that you could find a new love that you never know.
The thing about guys, is that you go around dating different girls one after another after a breakup. And, this is a SURE NO NO. PERIOD. Guys… don’t do this. Try to find new ways to spend your time. Get away with time spend with your family, friends. Stay away from single dating until you settle your emotions and are ready again for a new relationship.
5. Remember the important things.
Part of learning how to get your ex girlfriend back means treating your girl like a princess. One of the easiest ways to do this is to show her that you care by remembering the most important anniversaries and dates in her life. Send her a card on her birthday, and let her know you’re thinking about her in a harmless and positive way.
There is no exact process or science to the process of learning how to get your ex girlfriend back, but there are some pretty clear cut suggestions out there that will steer you in the right direction. Obviously maintaining contact and communication is absolutely vital to the rekindling process, but do not over do it, otherwise you may scare her away.
These are just the beginning steps in winning your ex back.